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14 of the best marriage proposal ideas for romantic couples

Just in time for Valentine’s Day, we take a look at some of the different ways to propose and share some sweet, simple, sincere and romantic proposal ideas that might prove the perfect way to personalise and pop the question.

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Glenn Guiao/Unsplash

You might have found ‘the one’, picked the engagement ring and be ready to ask the love of your life to be your husband or wife, but how do you find the best way to propose? Given it’s a moment you’ll both remember forever, it’s an understandable dilemma, so ABIA’s Tanya Bywater takes a look at some popular, time-tested and truly unique and romantic ways to ask the big question.

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Alessandro Alle/Pixabay

Ways to propose

There’s no one right way to pop the question, but put some thought into your personality types, and the activities you and your partner enjoy doing together, and chances are you’ll find your marriage proposal inspiration there.

At ABIA we're all for an over-the-top extreme proposal, but we also understand that grand gestures aren’t for everyone, and that often a private, intimate moment, involving a significant place, a thoughtful approach or a focus on shared interests, can mean the most. So, below you'll find a few of our favourite low-key proposal ideas and suggestions.

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Glenn Guiao/Unsplash

Some sweet, sincere and simple marriage proposal ideas

Lock it in

Secured to the likes of bridge railings and fence chains, clusters of lovers' locks tend to concentrate in romantic places. So, if you find a spot near you (ideally one that’s Council-approved), engrave your proposal on a padlock of your choosing, then take a stroll with your special someone, produce the lock and suggest they attach it as others have done.

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Makemyholidaycard/Pixabay

Get cheesy

If an Italian restaurant was the location of your first date, or if pizza’s simply a shared favourite, get creative with your pizza making — or have your local pizzeria do it for you — and serve your question with optional anchovies.  

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Image source @theplateproject

Light a candle

Candlelight might seem like a romantic cliché, but there’s no denying the ambience that a flickering flame creates. Even a few candles will help set the scene, but a mass display of candles — which can be easier and safer to achieve with the likes of candle sand — will transform the simplest of settings into a magical proposal location.

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Image source Chameleon Sand Candles | Sean Reefman Photography

Seek your fortune

A custom-made fortune cookie, cracked open at the end of a Chinese meal, might make a cute way to pop the question to your future fiancée, or fiancé — whether you dine-in or takeaway.

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Image source FortuneCookiePlanet on Etsy

Write it in the sand

Whether it’s something you do regularly, or an activity you combine with a romantic holiday, a walk on the beach offers the ideal opportunity to relax, hold hands and write your message in the sand.

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Steve Howard/Pixabay

Take a ticket

Is a concert, the cinema or theatre your idea of a great date night? Book your seats and have imitation made-to-order tickets printed with your proposal inscribed —  just don’t forget to take the real tickets with you on the night!  

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Image source Stubforge on Etsy

Drop the question

If you’re a couple that likes to linger over coffee in bed, or sup tea together, shop online for cups and mugs with a proposal written inside. Make that memorable beverage and serve it somewhere homely — or head to your favourite café and get them in on the act — then try to keep calm as your lover sips their way to your monumental message.

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Image source @secretsofthekiln

Play your card right

Combine it with a special occasion or gift, and a bespoke 'scratchie' greeting card might prove the ultimate card trick!  

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Image source MakingMeadowsUK on Etsy

Stir emotions

For a marriage proposal that’s as simple as it is sweet, serve a specially-engraved spoon tucked into your beloved’s favourite ice-cream or dessert treat.

 

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Image source BostonInkBlink on Etsy

Propose with a pet

If you both share a fondness for a furry friend, have your pet take the lead and deliver a cute, and likely irresistible, marriage proposition.

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Image source @kristenstonephotography

Turn their page

If your sweetheart is the book-loving type, turn to folded book art to spell your intentions out and take your relationship to the next chapter.

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Image source LandKCreative on Etsy

Sweet talk them

If your intended has a sweet-tooth, sugarcoat the question — quite literally — by having your names, or the words ‘Marry me?’ imprinted in customised lollies or candy.

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Image source Designer Candy

Send them a sign

If you both love a cosy evening in, set up for movie night — pick your flick, prep the popcorn, dim the lights and get comfy on the couch — with a light-up sign at-the-ready, to declare your intentions when the moment seems right.

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Gift Habeshaw/Unsplash

Make it a family matter

If there’s a baby or little person in your life, have a bespoke onesie, t-shirt or playsuit made in their size, and let them help deliver your message come playtime.

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Image source BonniebyLynnAnderson on Etsy


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